Sunday, November 05, 2006

Know Who You Are and Be Yourself

It's been awhile since I last posted. I wonder what that's all about. Actually I'm aware that I'm working out some things and I needed to do that in my mind and not on here. I'm still a work in progress.

Anyway today I'm talking to a small contingent of high school age kids who are taking part in the Pro Life/Pro Choice class at our church. I'm telling my story. I want to talk to them about lies. You know the ones, the lies they hear from society and from each other, lies perpetuated through the media and rampant in their school friends. I want to uncover the lies that steal your identity and make you into someone you never intended to be, someone with secrets and reasons to lie yourself. My hope is I catch them before they've fallen into this trap but even if they're already caught in the web I want to give them hope for freedom. I believe it all comes down to this: Know who you are and be yourself. It's a small sentence packed with power. So how do you go about knowing who you are? That's the question. You listen to the truth and negate the lies. When you hear someone speak over you, you are responsible for asking "who's telling me this?" You can either receive it or you reject it. It's either a lie or the truth - good or evil. If you know who you are, you will recognize the lies and you will know the truth. For me that meant I've had to redefine my truths through the years. I did that through the revelation of knowing the love of the Father and knowing how much he personally loves me. In him and him alone I am complete. No other person can do that for me. No amount of searching for that person will fulfill that desire for wholeness. And believe me, I tried.

So, anyway, that's what's going on here. I'm a little freaked out about this one since I'll be talking to some of Max's friends and it's a small setting. He's given me his blessing and that certainly helps. It also helps to know who I am.

8 comments:

Beverly said...

bless you candy..i can't wait to hear what it was like.

sam served me communion by the river today..

reJoyce said...

I hope it goes well (or went well) and your story is able to help someone who is struggling. It's always a bit frightening to put yourself out there, but it seems to me like it can be a very powerful way to touch someone's life.

Dina said...

Candy, I know you can do this..."I can do all things through Christ who strengthen me.."
Just be yourself...you'll be AWESOME!!!

Maybe if you don't look @ them as Maxs friends...but Jesus' little sheep!!

Good Job GIRL!!

bobbie said...

thank you for taking the time to speak truth into the lives of youth. i'm not sure that there is anything more important in our world today.

would love to hear how it goes!

Scott said...

Good on ya, Candy. Kids need to know that every choice has consequences. Take the lyrics to Ben Folds' song "Brick" with you.

Thank you for doing this.

Candy said...

Ok, here I am. It was good. I wish it had been better. I'll blog about it. I promise. Right now I've just read the lyrics to Brick and I'm a little overdone.

Beverly said...

Candy..I held Whitney in her brokeness last night and told her that it is for the broken that Jesus' heart aches..
She has decided to go back to Thailand this summer. I know that God will use her broken heart to reach so many this summer and I am so proud of you for putting yourself out there and letting Him use yours..

Danielle said...

Candy you are BRAVE and so VERY COOL. Sharing our stories is so powerful. What a way to be a light in this dark world.