Tuesday, October 19, 2004

The Passing of Time

The last week has been surreal for me. One of my best friend's mother died on Friday, a transition that has been very hard and an experience that provided growth for many of us. Joyce McGlothlin was a most amazing woman. She was ahead of her time in many ways. A true lady, a strong, spirited woman who loved people. Joyce had alot of things to overcome in her life besides health issues. She could barely hear and yet was always involved in living. She was the single most hospitable person I've met in my life. We were always welcome in her home. Jack and Joyce had us over every Sunday for lunch for years and included us in their family holidays whenever we were in town. They invited us visit them in Switzerland two summers in a row and those are memories I will treasure for years to come. Joyce threw a great party. Joyce and I didn't always see eye to eye but we respected each other and loved each other. She was a fighter. She knew what was right in her mind and she stood up for it. I admire that. I admire her spirit. I will miss this amazing woman who was a big part of my life for the past 22 years. Her children, particularly Tracy, have had an enormous impact on my life. Tracy would not be who she is today without the influence of Joyce. And I am grateful beyond measure for who Tracy is today. She is my sister. She is my mentor. She is a sojourner on the path we have chosen to follow. She is my friend. She is my encourager. I couldn't do this living without her - nor would I want to. Through Tracy and Kelly and Shawn and their children Joyce lives on. I know Joyce is at peace. Today we celebrate her life. May it be a joyous celebration with lots of laughter! Joyce loved to laugh. Enjoy your party Joyce! We all love you very much.

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